Hair

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Body hair, facial hair, head hair. Two bad, one good but that’s not how testosterone sees it. The consequence of leaving my transition to female so late is that testosterone has done the majority of its damage already. My skeletal …

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Selling the house

The house has been photographed and measured, the estate agent paid. It’ll be on the market before then end of this week. To look at things logically, this is the best way – selling the house will leave us without …

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The pleasant surprise that wasn’t

Home last night to a really upset wife. When she’d told her parents about me, they were apparently really supportive and brilliant, helping her, and saying that they understood that it wasn’t my fault that I was born like this, …

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The beginning of the end

Since my coming out, my wife has realised that we’re approaching the end and she’s starting to take control over what happens to her. This is a good thing although hard on both of us emotionally.  It seems inevitable now …

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Coming out

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The main thing I took from my GIC weekend is the knowledge I do have gender dysphoria and the clinic are willing to help me cope through counselling sessions, either just me or with my wife. If my wife comes, …

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GIC weekend

I’ve been neglecting this blog again, for once though due to stuff actually happening rather than my usual mental malaise. Its catchup Tuesday … I had another two appointments at the GIC a couple of weeks ago. Psychologist on Friday …

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Like buses

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You wait ages for a GIC appointment then two come along in the same week. OK, it should have been one appointment with two different people but illness forced a rearranging and in the end I went to the GIC …

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Winter

We’re moving to acceptance now.  Acceptance that we’re probably going to split up. It doesn’t matter how much you love each other if one of the fundamentals you need in a relationship is changing. I will get the blame, perhaps …

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A week in London

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Last week my company, bless it, decided to send me on a course in London but enough about that … 5 evenings in a London hotel I actually didn’t get out until the Tuesday.  I had thought to have a …

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Bitter sweet

A night out with my wife but not quite the usual meal out and a couple of drinks, this was a night out at Pink Punters with me as Lisa for the first time. We got to the hotel and …

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